I envy your relationship with your inlaws. Such a rare and wonderful thing. Someone told me when my mom died that I was lucky to feel such sadness because that person was not close with their mother as I had been. It sounded like an odd thing to say when I was so very sad, but it’s true. I wouldn’t trade one moment of my sadness because it represented how much I loved my mom and how much I knew she loved me. Still and all, my thought go out to you and your husband.